Virginia on-air shooting proves our higher tolerance to tragedy. (Reuters) Following Josh Duggar's admission to rehab, after the Ashley Madison data leak led to his confessed infidelity, two family members of the disgraced former 19 Kids and Counting star are speaking out exclusively to ET. "We are all shocked and broken and furious," one member of the Duggar family says. "Who did we spend Christmases with? Who have we grown up with? Who is this person? This is supposed to be a happy time, and there is a dark cloud over our family." "Josh’s integrity is gone," the family member continues. "It’s scary. You never know who can have a double life. You really think you know someone. Josh was caught with his hand in the cookie jar and I hope he gets broken in rehab and gets the help he needs. I hope Anna finds the strength to make some changes." MORE: Inside Josh Duggar's Possible Christian Rehab Center, Reformers Unanimous A second family member reveals,"My heart is broken over this," adding that, "I hope and pray Josh gets the help he needs. I... More